First-time Homebuyer Informational Session, October 16

Ready to buy your first home, but don’t know where to start?

This in-person, hour-long First-time Homebuyer Informational Session outlines the RUPCO HomeOwnership Center’s Homebuyer Program and the path to homeownership.

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

Walk-ins welcome!

Wednesday September 18, 2019 / 6-7 pm

The Kirkland, 2 Main Street, Kingston NY 12401

Sullivan County Homebuyer Seminar, October 9

Looking to purchase home in Sullivan County?

The Sullivan County Land Bank (SCLB) and RUPCO can provide Opportunities and Resources that can help!!

FREE Homebuyer Seminar in Sullivan County

Guest Speakers

* Dickie Baxter – Curasi Realty
* Karen Fitzpatrick – M&T Bank
* Sullivan County Land Bank

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

Credit 101 Workshop, September 24

RUPCO presents a series of FREE Credit 101 Workshops

September 24, 2019
5:30-7:00 pm

The Kirkland Building
2 Main Street
Kingston, NY 12401

This workshop will provide valuable information on important aspects of your credit making it easier to qualify for a mortgage.

Tips will include
•Understanding your credit report
•Improving your credit
•Reducing your monthly debts

Find out how RUPCO programs can help you reach your goals.

REGISTER TODAY!

First-time Homebuyer Informational Session , September 18

Ready to buy your first home, but don’t know where to start?

This in-person, hour-long First-time Homebuyer Informational Session outlines the RUPCO HomeOwnership Center’s Homebuyer Program and the path to homeownership.

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

Walk-ins welcome!

Wednesday September 18, 2019 / 6-7 pm                                                        

The Kirkland, 2 Main Street, Kingston NY 12401

 

Sullivan County Homebuyer Seminar, August 27

The Sullivan County Land Bank (SCLB) and RUPCO can provide Opportunities and Resources that can help!!

Guest speakers:

  • Dickie Baxter & Vinny Reeda from Curasi Realty 
  • Denise Quinn from Mid Hudson Valley Federal Credit Union 

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

FREE Homebuyer Seminar in Sullivan County

Tuesday  August 27, 2019

5:30 – 7:00 PM 

Holiday Mountain Fun Park
The 845 (restaurant)
30 Holiday Mountain Road
Monticello, NY 12701

Homebuyer Seminar in Monticello NY on August 27, 2019 from 5:30-7pm

 

First-time Homebuyer Informational Session , August 21

Ready to buy your first home, but don’t know where to start?

This in-person, hour-long First-time Homebuyer Informational Session outlines the RUPCO HomeOwnership Center’s Homebuyer Program and the path to homeownership.

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

Walk-ins welcome!

Wednesday August 7,2019 / 6-7 pm                                                        

The Kirkland, 2 Main Street, Kingston NY 12401

Credit 101 Workshop, August 7

RUPCO presents a series of FREE Credit 101 Workshops

August 7, 2019
5:30-7:00 pm

The Kirkland Building
2 Main Street
Kingston, NY 12401

This workshop will provide valuable information on important aspects of your credit making it easier to qualify for a mortgage.

Tips will include
•Understanding your credit report
•Improving your credit
•Reducing your monthly debts

Find out how RUPCO programs can help you reach your goals.

REGISTER TODAY!

Sullivan County Homebuyer Seminar, July 23

The Sullivan County Land Bank (SCLB) and RUPCO can provide Opportunities and Resources that can help!!

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

FREE Homebuyer Seminar in Sullivan County

Tuesday  July 23, 2019

5:30 – 7:00 PM 

Village of Liberty
Municipal Building
167 North Main Street
Liberty, NY  12754

 

First-time Homebuyer Informational Session, July 17

Ready to buy your first home, but don’t know where to start?

This in-person, hour-long First-time Homebuyer Informational Session outlines the RUPCO HomeOwnership Center’s Homebuyer Program and the path to homeownership.

Call 845-331-9860 or email dfnostrand@rupco.org to register today!

Walk-ins welcome!

The Kirkland, 2 Main Street, Kingston NY 12401

Flyer showing the Kirkland Building at 2 Main Street in Kingston NY and a group siting around a table for a homebuyer orientation class, promoting a firsttime homebuyer informational session on July 17, 2019 from 6-7 pm to find out how RUPCO can help firsttime homebuyers reach their goal of homeownership

 

One Step Behind

 

Although I’ve never been homeless, it feels like I don’t have a home. All my life, I’ve struggled to find and accept one. To me, a home is a place where you feel content and secure. I’m so close to finding this sanctuary that it pains me, but I’m not there yet. I think that if it weren’t for my troubled childhood, I would be able to find a place to call my own.

Growing up with two alcoholic parents doesn’t exactly set you up for success. I did have a perfect childhood, until my parents split up. After the divorce, my sister and I started living with our mother. This is when her alcoholism truly took control of her life, and ours. We would come home from school not knowing whether or not she would be intoxicated. At eight, I started to become traumatized by her instability and behavioral antics. We were too young to realize what was going on, but this had become our new life. Because of her alcoholism, I was forced to become an adult and take care of her while I raised my sister as well as myself. This life had broken any and all the memories I had of a home. Ten years later, I had a second chance of finding a place to call my own.

When I was eighteen, I moved in with a friend and his family. They accepted me and treat me like their own. I appreciate everything they’ve done for me and am eternally grateful, but even with all their support and love, I can’t help but to hesitate about calling their house my home. The constant tension within the house triggers something within me, making it difficult to relax there. because of the tension, I still return not knowing what I’m coming back to. This instability brings me back to when I was with my mother. They truly try to make me as comfortable as possible, but I’m still stuck in the past.

The closest thing to home I’ve ever had was my dorm at SUNY Geneseo. It was just me and my cat. I had my own space. The major difference was that the dorm was “mine.” I didn’t have to be anxious about what I would come back to. I had a safe space. This fall I will start an intercultural and interpersonal communications degree at SUNY New Paltz. I will once again be dorming and to me that means I’ll have a temporary home. I understand that home is what you make of it, but I just can’t adapt to living with others yet. I think that in order for me to let go of my past, I need to live on my own for the time being.

Home matters to me, as it should to everyone. Although I’m not quite there yet, I believe that my home is out there waiting for me. I’m not sure how I’ll get there, but I know I will. In the end everything works out, I’m just one step behind. 

-Heather Trimboli